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my_teRriTorYDance like no one is watching, love like you've never been hurt, sing like no one is listening, and live like it's heaven on earth. June 16 byebye live spaces.msn space is giving me too much trouble. m moving to a new blog. this is not only to mark an end as well as a start of several occassions, ie changing a new job, stop trading the stupid bursa malaysia and getting ready to trade the US, having bought a new laptop, and hopefully a change of lifestyle too.
you are welcome to visit my new blog http://peir26.blogspot.com/
June 13 unbelievable unattractive quality.saw this quote below somewhere, something i feel strongly resonate with, right at the second i laid eyes on it. i mean, if you were to ask me what kinda person i'm attracted to, even if its just friends, i can't really tell you what it is (i could have said something lame LOL). but here is definitely something i'm not attracted to.
"someone who is helpless - that's an unbelievable unattractive quality for me. whether it's where to park or make a reservation somewhere, making a decision - a lot of people, they just don't know how to take initiative or make things happen. "
so damn right. unbelievable unattractive quality. June 11 A look at gay youth homelessnessA very touching and moving documentary of gay youth homelessness in the United states. Thank God that there are actually people who look into these issues. there are people who care about the homeless kids. give them a chance to live. support them, let them be strong. not be a victim of their sexual orientation. some things that they wrote and speak out in the final part almost brought tears to my eyes. below is just a sneak peek of the documentary. and the following are quotes that i find greatly insipiring these kids were asked to write, beginning with the statement : "you think i'm at risk, because" "you think i'm at risk, because i'm different. bcuz i don't have a lot of family. bcuz i'm in the system. i've got abused a lot by my parents. i don't have any reasons to live anymore." "bcuz i'm gay. i'm a man of colours." "bcuz i explore myself. explore my options and explore my world." "bcuz people constantly inform me that my state of mind and being is a choice. bcuz legally i cannot marry the love of my life. bcuz its immoral." "bcuz for some reasons, coast to coast, the united states stands against us. to hate us. to hurt us. to make us feel ashamed for the person who we wanna be." "i have had dreams of being in the coffin, and no one wants to come to my funeral. " "at risk to me its just an opportunity to prove something wrong." look at what the staff say about them: "they teach us that they are not the victim. they can, with our support, achieve amazing things." "i love keep coming to this job. bcuz i love to watch them grow up. i love to watch the potential be instill in them." "for any kid, whom somebody thought less of them, bcuz they are gay or lesbian, needed to have space, for they could explode into who they were created to be." "they are a lot stronger than half of the people i ever met in my life." "people just completely overlooked these children. and they have so much to give." and finally, what they think of themselves: "i'm a graduate, i'm an activist, i'm a role model. and while i'm at risk, i will not stop until i get to where i'm going." "i'm coloured. i'm live. i'm music. i'm poetry. in other words, i'm art. i'm an individual. however, there's one thing that i'm not. i'm not a victim." "i'm bright, i'm funny, i'm different." "i'm fabulous, and gay, and intelligent, and aspiring to be all that i can be." "i'm a friend, i'm a son, i'm a student, i'm a human, i'm a co worker. i'm smart, i'm friendly. i'm a photographer. i'm talented. i'm life. i'm a gift of reality. i'm proud of who i am. i'm proud to be doing this." these people just give us hope to live a better tomorrow don't they? CREDITS for more videos please go to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gcohHGaV9w and search for yourself. :p
恶我不太能理解为什么男生的鼻毛总是会长到外面。 长到外面也就算了，长毛好正常。可是，个人门面总得装点一下吧，好歹也用剪刀修一修，让人看了不那么恶心。每天用鼻毛跟别人讲话，好有型吗？ 仇人与恩人公司同事寄来这个挺有意思的小故事。
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【人生】 仇人 與 恩人
大學剛畢業的時候，某電視公司請我去主持個特別節目，那節目的導播看我文章不錯，又要我兼編劇。可是當節目做完，領酬勞的時候，導播不但不給我編劇費，還扣我一半的主持費。
他把收據交給我說：『你簽收一千六，但我只能給你八百，因為節目透支了。』 我當時沒吭聲，照簽了，心想 【君子報仇，十年不晚。】 後來那導播又找我，我還 【照樣】 幫他做了幾次。最後一次，他沒扣我錢，變得對我很客氣，因為那時我被電視公司的新聞部看上，一下子成為了電視記者兼新聞主播。
我們後來常在公司遇到，他每次笑得都有點尷尬。我曾經想去告他一狀，可是正如高中那位同學所說，沒有他我能有今天嗎？如果我當初不忍下一口氣，又能繼續獲得主持的機會嗎？機會是他給的，他是我的貴人，他已經知錯，我何必去報復呢？
後來我到了美國留學。
有一天，一位已經就業的同學對我抱怨他的美國老闆 【吃】 他，不但給他很少的薪水，而且故意拖延他的綠卡 （美國居留權） 申請。我當時對他說： 『這麼壞的老闆，不做也罷。但你豈能白幹了這麼久，總要多學一點，再跳槽，所以你要偷偷學。』
他聽了我的話，不但每天加班，留下來背那些商業文書的寫法。甚至連怎麼修理影印機，都跟在工人旁邊記筆記，以便有一天自己出去創業，能夠省點修理費。
隔了半年，我問他是不是打算跳槽了？他居然一笑： 『不用！我的老闆現在對我刮目相看，又升官，又加薪，而且綠卡也馬上下來了，老闆還問我為什麼態度一百八十度轉變，變得那麼積極呢？』 他心裏的不平不見了，他作了 『報復』 ，只是換了一種方法，而且他自我檢討，當年其實是他自己不努力。
大概前五年吧！我遇到個有意思的事。
一位老友突然猛學算命，由生辰八字、紫薇斗數、姓名學到占星術，沒一樣不研究。他學算命，當然不是覺得算命靈驗，而是想證明算命是騙人的東西。原因是有一位非常著名的大師為他算命，算他活不到四十七，他發誓，非打爛那大師的招牌不可。
你猜怎樣？
他愈學愈怕，因為他發現自己算自己，也確實活不長。這時候，他改了，他跑去做慈善，說：『反正活不久了，好好運用剩下的歲月，做點有意義的事。』 他很積極地投入，人人都說他變了，由一個焦躁勢利的小人，變成敦厚慈愛的君子。不知不覺，他過了四十七、過了四十八，而今已經五十三，紅光滿面、生氣勃勃，比誰都活利健康。
「你可以去砸那大師的招牌了！」 我有一天開他玩笑。他眼一亮，回問我： 『為什麼？』 又笑笑： 『要不是那人警告我，照我以前的個性，確實四十七歲非犯心臟病不可，他沒有不準啊！』
你喜歡逞強鬥狠嗎？
你總是心有不平嗎？
你有 【此仇不報非君子】 的憤恨嗎？
一點心得
你要知道， 【敵人、仇人】…
都可以 【激發】 你的【潛能】 ，成為你的【貴人】。
你也要知道，許多怨仇、不平，其實問題都出在你自己。（this is so true isn't it)
你更要知道，這世間最好的 『報復』 ，就是運用那股不平之氣，
使自己邁向成功，以那成功和 【成功之後的胸懷】 ，(and this is so important)
對待你當年的敵人，且把敵人變成朋友。
當 『冤冤相報何時了』 的【雙贏】 ，
能成為 【相逢一笑泯恩仇】 的【雙贏】 。
不是人生最大的成功嗎？
是不是：如果你是正確的，你的世界就是正確的？
June 09 beesieeei don't have time to blog. i'm sibuk gila!! (busy like crazy, a new pick up line i picked up from my malay colleagues LOL) some stupid jobs are coming in, plus some stressful company activities that claims to be "healthy" and things like "lets get to know each other more" and and and... not only the work is getting overwhelming (everythin was like poured in all of a sudden and all at the same time and all due at the same time ya know! why cant they just come one by one??).. and in addition to that...tons of wedding dinners this month that are killing me!! ( well althou i cant say that i don't enjoy them..some were quite fun indeed n was great to be meeting all the old buddies again.. i know i know.. i don't mean to be babbling really..)
so.. thats all i can say now. and btw i'm kinda excited abt my new job n being back in a totally new n sort of "funky" environment again.. ( u know thats what ppl always say abt advertising company..)
have a great weekend! June 01 测名服务just for fun!
影响人生命运除姓名以外，还有生辰八字、生活环境及后天努力。姓名数理差不等于命运差，好命加上好命犹如锦上添花。
我的人格运普普，仅属半吉。测评结果：沉浮不定、凶吉难变、若明若暗、大成大败。
然地格、外格、总格皆为大吉。前半生，即地格数属智谋，智谋优秀、财力归集、名闻海内、成就大业。而后半生则顺风，当新生泰和、顺风扬帆、智谋经纬、富贵繁荣。外格数厚重，厚重载德、安富尊荣、财官双美、功成名就。
可见我一生顺风顺水，即使人格命未算最佳，但其他的吉数总也盖过一切不吉了吧。哈哈哈哈。
所谓五格取象，是根据《易经》的“象”、“数”理论，依据姓名的笔画数和一定规则建立起来天格、地格、人格、总格、外格等五格数理关系，并运用阴阳五行相生相克理论，来推算人的各方面运势。 天格：天格乃祖先留下来的，其数理对人影响不大。 人格，又称"主运"，是整个姓名的中心点，人一生的命运，均由此人格推断。 地格，称为"前运"，主管人中年以前的活动力。 外格，主管命运之灵力。 总格，主中年至晚年的命运，又称"后运"。 May 30 i MAY have $241.40 unclaimed cash huh!now this is pretty interesting. Find out how much cash you are owed that's still unclaimed!
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◎您是幸運的寶劍，有勇有謀，能獲得富貴，充滿創造力與義氣，喜歡有禮貌，有智慧的人。有主導權與領導能力，對於現狀的不滿，能勇於突破。◎
根據命理來分析您的個性，潛意識，以及行為模式，您是屬於「寶劍命」，因此您天生具有寶劍的特質，有魄力、義氣，與霸氣。您也十分有才幹與領導能力，富有公平心與正義感，喜歡保護弱小，不喜歡恃強凌弱，受人恩惠，必定回報，不願意辜負別人，也不願意占人便宜。寶劍雖然外在感覺比較強勢，但內心卻很溫暖，吃軟不吃硬。寶劍銳利無比，因此您對於現狀的不滿，能勇於突破，抗衡壓力，改變環境，掌握自己的命運。 此外，您喜歡有聰明智慧，才華創意的人，不喜歡懦弱沒有擔當的人，而能讓您佩服的人，多半是有領袖特質，能夠犧牲奉獻，講求公平正義的人。您的一生，像寶劍一樣，但是要成為真正的寶劍，寒光射天地，劍氣沖斗牛，是需要經過反覆的淬煉。沒有經過淬煉的寶劍，只能成為廢鐵。然而要經過淬煉，需要有浴火鳳凰的精神，不怕痛苦與磨難，只要您經得起外在的考驗，不怨天尤人，進而學習成長，一旦通過考驗，您的成就將不可限量，是領袖級的人物，風雨不能影響您，困難不能障礙您，成為不敗的常勝軍。 ◎您本命五行水太旺，體質比較寒冷，所以身體比較弱，容易手腳冰冷，要注意婦科的保健。◎
因此您不能過度勞累，要維持正常作息，早睡早起，才可以保護先天比較弱的腎水系統。此外，由於體質偏向心虛血弱，所以盡量不要喝冰的飲料，也要避免房事太頻繁，以免傷了元氣。(what the hell?) ◎簡易愛情分析，您是屬於比較強勢的太太。您的愛情不是屬於濃情密意的那一型，他比較沒主見，而您比較有智慧，在未來的感情路上，您們會遇到許多溝通上的問題，需要您們以智慧與包容來一一克服。◎ 您愛情的模式，根據命理分析，在您生命中出現的異性，常常第一眼就很容易喜歡上您，但是他們常常覺得追不上您，只要對方敢追您又追到了，您們的愛情會火速發展，但時間一久，就會火藥味不斷，因為對方確實有點高攀(wow this is pretty exalting, yet i don't feel all that exalted really)，自然需要忍受一些您的脾氣。 ◎簡易事業分析，您的工作類型大部分都需要靠腦力，從事一些思考導向的工作。這類型的工作，需要邏輯思考，策略分析，創意想像，以腦力為導向。◎ (i don't think this is quite so true to me.) (here comes the best part!!!) ◎簡易財運分析，您未來很會賺錢，但是不喜歡靠工作賺錢，喜歡利用錢來賺錢。◎ |
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